Slowing Down 7 – Good Friday, Holy Saturday, Easter!
We arrive again at our Good Friday, when we contemplate Our Lord being tortured and giving up His life for our salvation.
We’ve talked about slowing down in order to live more mindfully, more conscientiously. By doing so, we can live more spiritually. Isn’t that the true goal of our lives, to be in relationship with our God: Father, Son, and Spirit?
I think about the followers of Jesus, and how they must have despaired to see their Hope die on a cross and be entombed. What is left when even Hope is gone? On that Friday, they must have been devastated and in shock, feeling so very confused.
Then Holy Saturday followed. The numbness subsided and the pain ached, both real and unrelenting. No doubt they felt abandoned and maybe even angry. They’d changed their lives for a dream that now seemed destroyed.
Have you been there? Have you received devastating news? Have you heard a frightening diagnosis, or learned of the death of a loved one, or realized your child was lost, either literally or spiritually? You’ve known your own suffering and death of that dark Friday. You’ve awakened the next day, your Holy Saturday, only to realize anew what you’ve lost. And maybe your Holy Saturday goes on and on for days or months or years.
Yet, we have a gift that the disciples didn’t on Holy Saturday. We know about Easter Sunday. We know there is hope ahead, and that evil and death have been conquered. We will all have our Holy Saturdays that feel like waiting in Limbo, but we are an Easter people. We strive to live mindfully and conscientiously and spiritually. We have faith and hope and love. We know our Easter will come. The resurrection will be ours, too.
Easter is coming! Rejoice!
Thank you for reading these Lenten posts. I hope at least one line has touched your soul.

One last bonus section for your consideration, or maybe amusement: 20 Ideas for Slowing Down Your Overall Pace of Life, from The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry, by John Mark Comer:
- Drive the speed limit.
- Get into the slow lane. Pray while you drive.
- Come to a full stop at stop signs.
- Don’t text and drive.
- Show up 10 minutes early for an appointment and don’t use your phone.
- Get into the longest checkout line at the grocery store. (Wise to regularly deny ourselves what we want. We don’t have to get our way to be happy.)
- Turn your smartphone into a dumb phone. Take email off your phone. Take all social media off your phone. Use your computer and only check at scheduled times. Disable your web browser. Delete all notifications, including those for texts. Ditch news apps or alerts. Delete every app you don’t need or doesn’t make your life easier. Set your phone to grayscale mode for less stimulation.
- Get a flip phone or ditch your cell phone all together.
- Parent your phone; put it to bed before you and make it sleep in.
- Keep your phone off until after your morning quiet time.
- Set times to check and respond to email.
- Set a time and a limit for social media (or just get off it.)
- Kill your TV. Every single thing that we let into our minds will have an effect on our souls.
- Single task. Be fully present to the moment: to God, other people, work in the world, and your own soul. That’s more than enough to consume your attention.
- Walk slower.
- Regularly take a day alone for silence and solitude.
- Take up journaling. (Or vlog or voice note journal.) The point is to slow down enough to observe your life from the outside.
- Experiment with mindfulness and meditation.
- If you can, take long vacations. A study shows it takes 8 days for happiness levels to peak. (The Torah had 3 feasts a year, and were 8 days long, including two Sabbaths.)
- Cook your own food. And eat in. The anchor point for a family’s life can be the table.